| You know the drill you go on a site looking for a woman. In real life you are not that confident so the internet is a good option for you to meet what you think are genuine women that are like yourself looking for love. But you don't have much money so you come across a dating site that is free. Of course it could cost you in other ways. Self Esteem, Self Worth will be shattered when you join. Why do I say this?? Put simply you get what you pay for. The Women on these free dating sites are damaged goods. Most of them are looking for gold. They are skimming through the profiles to find their next victim. This is either another Man to give them a baby to top up their benefits. A bloke with money who can make sure they don't have to work. A Man who is easy to manipulate for the control freak types. The women on POF full into these catagories: GOLD Digger or the user that just looks for a meal ticket Control Freak or the woman that likes to manipulate men to be how she wants and then when they are like how she wants she gets bored and means on to the next victim The slut who will sleep with you and then your best friend and doesn't care who knows it The Woman who is totally ok and then turns violent The Prick Teaser a bit like the slut who basically shows you what you could have but then pulls away. IE Friends Don't Kiss!!! There is an old addage that my Nan used to say "If it looks too good to be true it most probably is!" This applies to the net. Do you honestly think that intelligent, sexy and honest women would join a site like that??? They would be snapped up in real life. If they look lovely then there is obviously a problem. Ask yourself why they are still on the shelf. Ask yourself why they can't get anyone and have to go on POF and other free dating sites. The reason is simple. NOBODY WANTS THEM IN REAL LIFE. They are damaged goods. Women come to the site who are desperate to stroke their bloated egos. To make Men seems small and insignificant to them. To damage decent lads because they have been hurt. They do this in a variety of ways and I have heard them all: Oh my god can't you shorten what you write. I did not even read half of that Why not shave on your picture I don't believe you are really a tall guy Sorry I only go with working men You wear your heart on your sleeve come back when you toughen up Sorry you are not my type. Even though they never met me!!! Don't you think you should see someone you seem weird to me!!! Can't you type like other guys I have messaged? The list goes on. Nice guys on Plenty of Fish are swallowed up by big fish. So if you aint tough enough forget it!!! |
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